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Keeping things in perspective

Saturday, December 1st, 2018

I celebrated my 70th birthday last week.  Shocking, right?

When I was a child, 70 seemed ancient–one foot in the grave.  But now I don’t feel that way at all!  It’s all a matter of perspective, how we see ourselves.  So I decided it was a good time to do a “Selfie at Seventy,” taking a realistic look at where I am now.

"Selfie at Seventy" by Charlotte Mertz (10"x8" oil, #181104-o)

“Selfie at Seventy” by Charlotte Mertz (10″x8″ oil, #181104-o)

It’s true that after something like 20 years of “enhancing” my hair color, I’ve finally allowed it to go natural, … only to discover that it’s a very distinguished looking color all on its own, with a lovely white streak over my right eye.  We can be so concerned with what we’re “losing” that we miss the beauties that are happening now.

Birthday cards might razz me about presumed age-related issues, … but they seem irrelevant when I feel much younger than my chronological age would suggest.  It’s true that I prefer not to jog, as I once did; but orthotic inserts in my shoes still allow me to walk quickly and comfortably.  I can’t see as well as I once could; but trifocals can do wonders to clarify my vision.  My memory might not be as sharp as it once was; but there’s a whole lot more stored in it now than there used to be.

I look at my mother, still living largely independently at almost 98 (though she doesn’t cook for herself anymore), staying in touch with distant family by letters and email, and I realize that, rather than figuratively throwing in the towel at a mere 70, I could very well still have a good 30 productive years or more ahead of me, too!  As much as I learned and experienced and accomplished in any of my preceding 30 years, just as much could still lie ahead.  How exciting!  How challenging!  How much there is to still be accomplished if I don’t give up on myself yet.

I’m not old.  Goodness!  I’m just getting started!  I think I’ll take a class.  How about you?